Ah, well...I guess it's time to write something again?
We've had some life happening around here...Jon's dad, Denis Audet passed away on November 15th. It was an amazing thing--watching him 'decrease' (for lack of a better word) and seeing Jesus 'increase' over the last few months. We were all waiting for the miraculous healing. Waiting for him to wake up some morning and be perfectly healed and fully energetic. And it did happen, just not here. Jon had been there that afternoon and was planning on going back the following morning to do some repairs, and the last thing his dad said to him as he went out the door was, 'See you in the morning'.
And so we will.
Then it was a whirlwind of Thanksgiving preparations and finding ways for all the family to get here for the memorial service and then grieving together when they got here. And then it was the memorial service--a wonderful tribute to a life well lived--and the let down afterwards. And now it's the living without a beloved father.
And so we've kept ourselves busy. Jon's been helping his mom clear out some of his dad's stuff and rearranging her apartment. Kristine and I have gone back to school, and I've realized again how much I have to 'forge' this relationship with her. And how very important it is to both of us that we do forge this relationship.
I don't make many friends very easily. I have just a few very good friends, and I am very choosy about with whom I make those friendships. Not because I'm snobbish--although I've gotten that reaction more times than not--it's just because relationships are precious to me and I'd rather have a few, well guarded, well tended relationships than a hundred casual acquaintances. Just as I'd much rather have 3 or 4 large beautiful gems than a whole bucketful of agates.
On the other hand, there are people who I would not call 'very good friends' (in a tea sharing, woe bearing, laughter living friendship), but are people whom I love very dearly nonetheless. These are the people who consistently live out Christ for everyone to see. They never fail to encourage me even when they have no idea that they have and continue to do so. They don't burden me with their own troubles, and they don't expect me to care (but I do, just because they are so precious), but they want to know mine and, somehow, lift me up. I sometimes look at these lovely people from (as I perceive) afar, and wonder how I could add their graciousness, their sparkling sweetness to my own 'collection' of gems and really envy the people who do 'own' these friendships. And it's just then, at that very moment that I'm gazing wistfully at their charisma, that they, in unconscious charm, tell me what a precious and beloved friend
I am to them. And I feel myself the richest girl on the planet.
Den was one of these jewels. He was wonderful here. It was so much fun to see him sparkle as he shimmered and reflected light with his faceted character. And all I can think of is Malachi 3:17. "They shall be Mine," says the Lord of hosts. "On the day that I make them my jewels; and I will spare them as a man spares his own son who serves him."
What a beautiful sight it is! To see all those jewels--those saints who have forged a relationship with the King--shining, reflecting the light of the everlasting sun.
How good and sweet are the memories of Den's life. But how much better is the knowledge of his future!